6 Top Signs a Guy Isn’t Interested In You Anymore

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1. He Stops Texting or Calling You.

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If your boyfriend stops calling or texting you regularly the way he used to do, then his interest in your relationship has gone cold. A guy who truly loves you will always find ways to contact you no matter how busy he is with his job or work.

2. He Flirts with Other Women In Front Of You

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Flirting with other women in front of you is a sure sign that he has lost interest in you, or he is indeed a playboy who is incapable of bringing you to the altar. Why would he flirt other women if he is really serious in your relationship and intending to marry you in the future.

3. His Body Language Changes Around You

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“When a guy likes you, he might not say so directly, but his body language will. He’ll lean towards you to build intimacy, face his body towards you in group situations, and find reasons to touch your shoulder or arm (like when he makes you laugh)” (Bastion).

If your boyfriend is no longer as sweet and caring as he used to be, then he probably lost his interest in you. It’s a sign that you need to move on and find another suitable partner.

4. He Doesn’t Pay Attention Like He Used To

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Romantic relationships call for intimacy and mutual care on a regular basis. This entails every partner to provide special attention to your loved one. If your boyfriend is no longer giving you the special attention he used to give you when you started the relationship, then it’s a sign that he is no longer interested in you. Watch out for inconsistencies of what he says and what he does. If he says that “I will never, ever love somebody more than I love you” but starts to take you for granted, then it’s time to find another guy until you’ll find your match and get engaged.

5. You Always Have To Text And Call Him First

You will know that your man is no longer interested in you always have to text and call him instead he taking the initiative to contact you. In this case, he maybe busy with other things or maybe having other relationships with other girls. A guy who is truly in love with you would make sure to contact you no matter how busy he is! A change in pattern in your communication is a biggest sign that he is gradually abandoning you!

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6. He Doesn’t Get Jealous If You Mention Seeing Someone

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Jealousy is not always a negative reaction. Being jealous can be just a way to guard the exclusive relationship from intruders. If your boyfriend is jealous when you mention that you’re seeing someone is just a normal reaction, and a precaution for him that you might get tempted to entertain other relationship. Romantic relationship is basically dyad or pair with 2 people falling in love, not triad or any form of polygamous union. So, if your guy is not jealous even if you mentioned positive traits of the person you met, then this can be a sign that he doesn’t care because he loses interest in your relationship.

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Reference

Bastion, N. (n.d.). “The Top 10 Signs a Guy Ins’t Interested in You Anymore”. Retrieved http://www.vixendaily.com/love/top-10-signs-a-guy-isnt-interested-in-you-anymore/

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6 Top Signs a Guy Isn’t Interested In You Anymore

boyfriend GIF

1. He Stops Texting or Calling You.

texting GIF

If your boyfriend stops calling or texting you regularly the way he used to do, then his interest in your relationship has gone cold. A guy who truly loves you will always find ways to contact you no matter how busy he is with his job or work.

2. He Flirts with Other Women In Front Of You

mad Sports bar GIF by Originals

Flirting with other women in front of you is a sure sign that he has lost interest in you, or he is indeed a playboy who is incapable of bringing you to the altar. Why would he flirt other women if he is really serious in your relationship and intending to marry you in the future.

3. His Body Language Changes Around You

tv land flirt GIF by #Impastor

“When a guy likes you, he might not say so directly, but his body language will. He’ll lean towards you to build intimacy, face his body towards you in group situations, and find reasons to touch your shoulder or arm (like when he makes you laugh)” (Bastion).

If your boyfriend is no longer as sweet and caring as he used to be, then he probably lost his interest in you. It’s a sign that you need to move on and find another suitable partner.

4. He Doesn’t Pay Attention Like He Used To

boyfriend GIF

Romantic relationships call for intimacy and mutual care on a regular basis. This entails every partner to provide special attention to your loved one. If your boyfriend is no longer giving you the special attention he used to give you when you started the relationship, then it’s a sign that he is no longer interested in you. Watch out for inconsistencies of what he says and what he does. If he says that “I will never, ever love somebody more than I love you” but starts to take you for granted, then it’s time to find another guy until you’ll find your match and get engaged.

5. You Always Have To Text And Call Him First

You will know that your man is no longer interested in you always have to text and call him instead he taking the initiative to contact you. In this case, he maybe busy with other things or maybe having other relationships with other girls. A guy who is truly in love with you would make sure to contact you no matter how busy he is! A change in pattern in your communication is a biggest sign that he is gradually abandoning you!

text oops GIF

6. He Doesn’t Get Jealous If You Mention Seeing Someone

high five rejected GIF by CBC

Jealousy is not always a negative reaction. Being jealous can be just a way to guard the exclusive relationship from intruders. If your boyfriend is jealous when you mention that you’re seeing someone is just a normal reaction, and a precaution for him that you might get tempted to entertain other relationship. Romantic relationship is basically dyad or pair with 2 people falling in love, not triad or any form of polygamous union. So, if your guy is not jealous even if you mentioned positive traits of the person you met, then this can be a sign that he doesn’t care because he loses interest in your relationship.

GIF Credits: Giphy.com

Reference

Bastion, N. (n.d.). “The Top 10 Signs a Guy Ins’t Interested in You Anymore”. Retrieved http://www.vixendaily.com/love/top-10-signs-a-guy-isnt-interested-in-you-anymore/

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9 Top Signs Your Boyfriend is a Playboy

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1. He is usually a good-looking man.

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Cheers! You’ve got a man that you can be proud of to your friends in terms of looks and sociability! Playboys are usually good-looking and sociable human beings. But they can’t be reliable in terms of fidelity and commitment. If your boyfriend is a playboy and an expert in the game of love, he is not only charming to you but also to others.  He always want to be on top of his game. That is why he is always conscious about his appearance, physical shape, and demeanor. Since women generally like men who are confident, he is usually slow in movements and actions, always a gentleman to impress you that he is the man you’re looking for! But things are not what they seem! If you’re looking for a man who date you in the altar, then a playboy is not the Mr. Right for you! Move on and find another man!

2. He’s evasive and mysterious.

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Your relationship with him is not constant or solid. Actually he is always mysterious about personal things. You would rarely have him tell you about his dreams, aspirations or insecurities. They are just protective about personal data. He wouldn’t want you to use these things against him at some point. Playboys are always hiding something but they tend to master the art of deception. So do a background check of the person you are dating!

3. His words do not match his actions.

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A playboy boyfriend is good at giving promises to his girlfriends. He is eloquent and usually a master of the art of persuasion. He can play with words. He says one thing and does another thing. He makes promises he cannot keep. In fact he is more about calming your feelings for the moment rather than acting to making sure you are secure.

4. He doesn’t make contact when he’s away.

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A playboy usually has other relationships. So he cannot devote his entire attention to one girl or partner.  If he’s out of town for three days or three weeks he would usually avoid contacting you as his girlfriend. As soon as he comes back, though, best believe you’ll be the first person he hits up, saying sorry and coming up with ‘I had network problems’ excuses – or my personal favorite, ‘My battery died’. So, wherever you were, no-one had a phone charger?

5. He will tell you he’s not like others.

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A testimony about one’s self is actually self-serving. Don’t immediately believe him. A playboy boyfriend is usually good at blaming others but not himself. It’s important to him that you believe him when he says he’s not like the others. He will even get ‘hurt’ when you accuse him of being just like everyone else.

6. He has other relationships.

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Boy! Playboys are not satisfied with one girl and one relationship. They are not born to be like this, though. They are probably influenced by their own fathers, relatives, and friends who are womanizers and who do not respect women’s dignity by sticking to one partner. He cannot commit to you as your boyfriend and promise you marriage because his attention is divided with other girls. But take note that playboys are good at hiding his other relationships. He deletes videos and text messaging that can incriminate him!

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7. He often talks about sex in your relationship.

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Since playboys are only after sex, they have no capacity to go beyond the physical and the material. They have no intention of marrying you. Their conversations are usually full of sexual innuendos that reflect they state of mind. They can be handsy, touching your body when in public and private places. Run away from him and find a suitable partner!

8. He’s not willing to show you to his friends and family.

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Playboys are not fond of introducing their “collection” of girls to their families, relatives and friends. If your boyfriend is not introducing you to his family, close relatives, and friends, he is probably a playboy. He is not interested of establishing a long-term commitment with you in marriage. Remember that marriage of two people is also a union of two families and their network of relatives and friends. If he is keeping you away from his family and relatives, he’s probably thinking only of a short-term relationship with you and may only be thinking of having sex with you! He’s in a hurry. If this is the case, start looking for another guy worthy of your love!

9. He’s not clear about the relationship.

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The relationship can be vague and mysterious. Veteran playboys do not want a long-term relationship that can lead to marriage. He only wants temporary relationship. He is  ever giving you every detail about his whereabouts or what he is up to when he is not with you. He has no clear plans of the future. He just only wants erotic relationship with you. Playboys are certified womanizers. Thus, run away from your playboy-boyfriend and find a more honest and sincere man who wants to marry you in the future.

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References

Cosmo (n.d.) 5 signs You’re Dating a Playboy. Cosmopolitan. Retrieved from https://www.cosmopolitan.co.za/sex-relationships/5-signs-youre-dating-playboy/.

Imafidon, C. (n.d.). 13 Things Only Girls Who Date A Playboy Would Know. Lifehack.org. https://www.lifehack.org/324408/13-things-only-girls-who-date-playboy-would-know.

7 Danger Signs that Your Boyfriend Only Wants Sex in Your Relationship

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1. He only notices how you look and not your personhood. 

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You are more than your physical appearance. You have your own set of values, religious beliefs, intelligence, life goals, and plans for a lifetime commitment in marriage Men who are sincerely interested in a relationship with you  will compliment you for your personal qualities and dignity as a person. They would also appreciate your talents and abilities, and sense of humor.

Men who are focused on having sex with you will tell you how great your hair looks or hot your ass looks in that dress. He would always tell how he noticed your sexy body parts. If your boyfriend is only interested of your body, then your relationship with him is going nowhere. Find another guy!

2. His conversations always turns sexual

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If your boyfriend always talk about sexual matters with you, even if done in jest, then he is not serious to bring to the altar of marriage. If you tell him about your successful sales presentation and he remarks how about how the client probably couldn’t take his eyes off you because you’re so beautiful and look so hot in your business suit, then your man is probably after only of your body. When you tell him you can hardly wait to go home and just soak in a hot bath, he’s quick to tell you, he wishes he could be there to wash your back, then he is not serious in your relationship. It’s time to say goodbye to him!

3. He does not invest in your relationship.

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Men who are only interested in sex don’t want to invest more time or money in developing a relationship with you. They are looking only for convenience and the easiest way to gratify their needs. They would never bring you to expensive restaurants for fine dining nor spend more money for text messaging and calls to contact you. They don’t buy expensive gifts. They would prefer to bring you to a burger or pizza house to save money. They usually disappear and look for another prey once they get what they want from you.

4. He wants hug, kiss, and then to go straight to the bed with you.

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In a relationship where someone is excited about knowing you, curious about your life and what you think, there are so many things to talk about. In a relationship where someone is only interested in using you for sex, there’s nothing important to discuss (Segel, 2017). Love waits! If your boyfriend is really serious to wed you in the church, he would wait for the honeymoon!

5.  He doesn’t introduce you to his family, close relatives, and friends. He’s in a hurry!

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If your boyfriend is not introducing you to his family, close relatives, and friends, he has a sinister plan for you. He is not interested of establishing a long-term commitment with you in marriage. Remember that marriage of two people is also a union of two families and their network of relatives and friends. If he is keeping you away from his family and relatives, he’s probably thinking only of a short-term relationship with you and may only be thinking of having sex with you! He’s in a hurry. If this is the case, start looking for another guy worthy of your love!

6. He’s Handsy

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You’re out together in a movie or even in public, and he constantly wants to kiss you, rub you, grope you, and tells you he can’t wait to get all naked, then stay away from him.”If he can’t keep his hands off of you, then that’s actually a bad sign that he is only interested of your body and not your real self as a person. Dump him! Find another guy who is mature and serious of marrying you! (Segel, 2017).

7. He says he loves you immediately.

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The first stage of love is infatuation. If a guy tells you that he immediately loves you the moment he saw you, he’s lying and more likely be looking only for sex. He is not a serious in your courtship  and to bring you to the altar. True love takes time and effort to know the attitude, value system, and personality of one’s partner.

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References

Schwimmer, L. (6 Dec 2017). “10 Signs he Only Wants Sex with You!.” Huffpost. Retrieved from https://www.huffingtonpost.com/larry-schwimmer/10-signs-he-only-wants-to_b_7688110.html.

Segel, A. (17 June 2017). “6 signs a Guy is Using You for Sex”. Elite Daily. Retrieved from https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/sex/signs-a-guy-is-using-you-for-sex/1994771.

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7 Danger Signs that Your Boyfriend Only Wants Sex in Your Relationship

i love you wink GIF

1. He only notices how you look and not your personhood. 

tom selleck flirt GIF

You are more than your physical appearance. You have your own set of values, religious beliefs, intelligence, life goals, and plans for a lifetime commitment in marriage Men who are sincerely interested in a relationship with you  will compliment you for your personal qualities and dignity as a person. They would also appreciate your talents and abilities, and sense of humor.

Men who are focused on having sex with you will tell you how great your hair looks or hot your ass looks in that dress. He would always tell how he noticed your sexy body parts. If your boyfriend is only interested of your body, then your relationship with him is going nowhere. Find another guy!

2. His conversations always turns sexual

carrie brownstein GIF

If your boyfriend always talk about sexual matters with you, even if done in jest, then he is not serious to bring to the altar of marriage. If you tell him about your successful sales presentation and he remarks how about how the client probably couldn’t take his eyes off you because you’re so beautiful and look so hot in your business suit, then your man is probably after only of your body. When you tell him you can hardly wait to go home and just soak in a hot bath, he’s quick to tell you, he wishes he could be there to wash your back, then he is not serious in your relationship. It’s time to say goodbye to him!

3. He does not invest in your relationship.

season 3 josh GIF by Bachelor in Paradise

Men who are only interested in sex don’t want to invest more time or money in developing a relationship with you. They are looking only for convenience and the easiest way to gratify their needs. They would never bring you to expensive restaurants for fine dining nor spend more money for text messaging and calls to contact you. They don’t buy expensive gifts. They would prefer to bring you to a burger or pizza house to save money. They usually disappear and look for another prey once they get what they want from you.

4. He wants hug, kiss, and then to go straight to the bed with you.

the oc kiss GIF

In a relationship where someone is excited about knowing you, curious about your life and what you think, there are so many things to talk about. In a relationship where someone is only interested in using you for sex, there’s nothing important to discuss (Segel, 2017). Love waits! If your boyfriend is really serious to wed you in the church, he would wait for the honeymoon!

5.  He doesn’t introduce you to his family, close relatives, and friends. He’s in a hurry!

jane the virgin date GIF

If your boyfriend is not introducing you to his family, close relatives, and friends, he has a sinister plan for you. He is not interested of establishing a long-term commitment with you in marriage. Remember that marriage of two people is also a union of two families and their network of relatives and friends. If he is keeping you away from his family and relatives, he’s probably thinking only of a short-term relationship with you and may only be thinking of having sex with you! He’s in a hurry. If this is the case, start looking for another guy worthy of your love!

6. He’s Handsy

smelling GIF

You’re out together in a movie or even in public, and he constantly wants to kiss you, rub you, grope you, and tells you he can’t wait to get all naked, then stay away from him.”If he can’t keep his hands off of you, then that’s actually a bad sign that he is only interested of your body and not your real self as a person. Dump him! Find another guy who is mature and serious of marrying you! (Segel, 2017).

7. He says he loves you immediately.

i love you heart GIF

The first stage of love is infatuation. If a guy tells you that he immediately loves you the moment he saw you, he’s lying and more likely be looking only for sex. He is not a serious in your courtship  and to bring you to the altar. True love takes time and effort to know the attitude, value system, and personality of one’s partner.

GIF Credits: Giphy.com

References

Schwimmer, L. (6 Dec 2017). “10 Signs he Only Wants Sex with You!.” Huffpost. Retrieved from https://www.huffingtonpost.com/larry-schwimmer/10-signs-he-only-wants-to_b_7688110.html.

Segel, A. (17 June 2017). “6 signs a Guy is Using You for Sex”. Elite Daily. Retrieved from https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/sex/signs-a-guy-is-using-you-for-sex/1994771.

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